Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fear. Show all posts

Saturday, 19 May 2012

20 money milestones for kids


As school exams get underway there’s a lot of stuff being digested in teenage bedrooms all over the country. I don’t just mean chocolate hob-nobs, but maybe some geography, german and algebra too.
Are modern kids prepared for the money world?
However,  one subject that’s notably absent from the modern curriculum is financial literacy. 
In a couple of years hoards of these youngsters will be managing their own finances, perhaps while saddled with student loans. And research shows that a big chunk of them won’t understand the money basics, like the difference between AER and APR or how compound interest works, by the time they reach adulthood.

That’s why I welcomed the launch this week of a website aimed at helping kids understand money. Moneyasyougrow.org is a site that features 20 essential money milestones that kids go through from the age of three to eighteen.
OK, it’s a US site but loads of the common sense stuff applies here too.
As do the key activities that help kids to learn at each age stage. I’ve selected just one for each age group here:
3 – 5 year olds need to understand that you may have to wait before you can have something that you want (see my earlier blog on one thing to teach your kids)
6-10 years olds need to know that it’s good to shop around and compare prices before you buy
11- 13 year olds are advised to save a dime for every dollar they get (for kids in the UK that would be 10p in the pound, although I suggest a third is better)
15 – 18 year olds are advised to use cash rather than credit cards for purchases and the over 18s are told they should only use a credit card if they can pay off the whole balance in full every month.

Many of the money problems we see in adults have their roots in childhood. 
So many of us had little or no financial education as kids and grew up into financial illiterate adults. Others had parents who handed down such strict money rules that money strikes fear in them years later and they avoid responsibility. 
One way to stop this pattern repeating itself if you have kids is to start a simple money education as soon as they are old enough to reach up and hand their pennies over the sweetie counter. The moneyasyougrow site is a good place to start; there are also lots of tips in Sheconomics.


Tuesday, 12 July 2011

The Girl with her Head in the Sand


Imagine this. 
You meet the love of your life and spend 30 blissful years together. He's a writer and has a few novels tucked in his desk drawer; he jokes that one day they’ll pay for your dream home in the country.
You are partners in every sense of the word, with a shared language and often research his books together. But you never get round to marrying.
Then at the age of just 50 he drops down dead. Suddenly his (previously estranged) family appear to claim their entitlement to half of the apartment in which you live. When your lover’s books are published posthumously, earning millions, it’s his family who are the legal heirs to the fortune. You don’t even figure in the picture.
This is what happened to Eva Gabrielsson the woman who was the life partner of Stieg Larsson, author of books including The Girl with The Dragon Tattoo and a global sensation. Eva is currently fighting a legal battle for control of Larsson’s literary estate and campaigning for a change in Swedish law.*
Although Eva describes herself as a feminist, like many women she left the financial affairs to her partner. Sadly Stieg didn’t set up a company to manage their joint assets, as he’d promised. And Eva didn’t find that out until it was too late.
Eva wasn’t unusual in failing to secure her own financial future and being a bit ignorant about their joint finances and her rights.  
In fact, as many as nine out of ten women in relationships prefer the ostrich position and don’t get involved in financial planning.

Yet women have a 70% chance of becoming solely responsible for their own financial well-being
 (through divorce, death of partner etc.)

Is this you?
  • Are you ignorant about your joint finances?
  • Do you just assume ‘things will be taken care of’ in the event of death or disaster?
  • If you are an unmarried co-habitee, do you know what your inheritance rights are?
  • If you got divorced (in most divorces women come off worse than men) how would you manage? And do you know what pension rights would be?
  • Are you spending your money on your children instead of on your own future? (we’ve heard of women cashing in their pensions to help their off-spring to buy a home). 
  • Is it time to do something different and put yourself first?

We hope you never have to wait for disaster to strike before the state of your finances is revealed as inadequate. 

In Sheconomics we give lots of tips on how to innoculate your finances against future adversity. 
Best to do it now -  then you can get on with enjoying your life!

*Eva has written a book about her campaign: Stieg and me: Memories of my life with Stieg Larsson (Orion £12.99).

Saturday, 15 January 2011

10 easy money actions for the financially challenged

...or the financial phobic.

None of these are scary. Or difficult.  But they could make a huge difference to your financial health.

Decide how many of them you will tick off this year: 


1.    Get on-line banking (if you haven’t already). Stick a weekly reminder in your diary to check your statement. Marvel at (or bemoan) where the money goes. Tackle leaks.



2.    Charity shop. Devise a whole new image based on charity shop finds. You can always restyle or dye stuff. Fashion victim = financial failure.


3.    Perform some plastic surgery. Cut up credit cards and just use cash. Slash and burn store cards, show them no mercy.


4.    Learn about compound interest. It’s how investments grow and why debts go ballistic. Spend 5 minutes getting to grips with it here. Feel immediately enlightened. Smug even.


5.    Sweep some money into a savings account. Every month. Do it by direct debit. You won’t miss it going out but you’ll love it piling up.

6.    Ask someone for money. Now. Nag your boss for a rise. Call in debts. Haggle for a discount on your next purchase. Take something back, demand a refund.

7.    Make kids earn money. Stop being their cash cow. Make them get a job or sell old toys on eBay. Threaten to charge them rent. If they’re over 18 charge them rent. Be less tough on toddlers.

8.    Deal with credit card debt. Transfer to a 0% interest card. If your savings earn less interest than you’re paying on your card, use them to pay off the debt.

9.    Play the long game. Give your future self a gift. Boost pension payments (or start one). Over-pay on the mortgage. Take out a 5 or 10 year high-interest investment.


10.  Stem the flow of wasted money. Unused gym memberships. Forgotten magazine subscriptions. Thirsty cars. Taxi/takeaway/smoking/alcohol habits. Put what you save into a separate account, just for you.

Wednesday, 6 January 2010

SIX TIPS FOR TWENTY TEN

This week the media have been dipping into Sheconomics for solid advice - see us on motley fool.co.uk, in Oprah's magazine 'O', in Times on-line and Cosmopolitan to name just a few......

Check out our fail-safe tips for a sheconomical 2010 on handbag.com or read the extract below......

Want to be better with your money? Answer the questions that Karen and Simonne have devised below. If you answer ‘yes' to any of them, take note of the tips and put them on your 2010 to-do list.

1. Are you financially immature?

We think we're grown-up, running a home, holding down a job. And then a money problem comes along and our inner child is unleashed. It's a common problem with women and it can stem from being over-protected when young, or from naively believing things will just work out somehow. The first step to being financially savvy is to be in charge of your money. Make financial independence your goal this year.

Tip: Find out about what you earn and what you owe. Sign up for online banking and monitor your finances regularly. Open bills and statements as soon as they arrive and deal with them.

2. Are you secretly scared of money?

Money is an emotionally loaded topic. Lots of women have fears about money. They can remind us of the doom-laden warnings from our parents. Or can be triggered by the technical language and jargon used by the finance world. Fear stops us taking action, so resolve to be ahead of the game this year.

Tip: Break big goals down into small, manageable steps and take one action now. Own up to the gaps in your knowledge and buddy up with someone who knows. Visit a plain speaking, friendly money website regularly, such as moneymadeclear.fsa.gov.uk. Or talk to a financial coach. If you want to empower yourself - find out how compound interest works (see www.fool.co.uk).

3. Do you have a shopping habit?

Shopping has become the way many women regulate their emotions. Research for sheconomics.com found that women use shopping to cheer themselves up, relieve stress or anesthetise themselves against painful emotions. That heady buzz from spending quickly wears off though, leaving only feelings of shame and guilt. Resolve to get high on life, not high on shopping, this year.

Tip: Know why you shop when you do. Spend only when you need the goods, not the buzz. Find alternatives to shopping that boost mood, like exercise, cooking for friends, dancing or gardening. Deal with your emotions, don't take them shopping.

4. Are you afraid to ask for money?

Women are still paid less than men and are far too reluctant to ask for money. If you undervalue yourself then you will be under-paid. Watch your self-limiting beliefs. Just because you hated maths at school doesn't mean you shouldn't have money. And working your socks off doesn't necessarily mean you'll get rewarded. Payback is more likely if you're upfront and ask for it. Be bolder this year. That includes negotiating for better deals and refusing to pay for bad service.

Tip: Ask for what you're worth and don't be fobbed off. Prepare your case and be proactive. If you've hit an earnings barrier, consider moving. If you're self-employed make sure your rates reflect what you're giving and the time you put in.

5. Are you a ‘live now, pay later' person?

Most women today will out-live the men in their lives. Many will also out-live their own savings. What will you do when you can no longer earn money? The earlier you start putting money away for your dotage, the less it costs you. If you haven't begun, resolve to make a gift to your future self this year.

Tip: If your company has a pension scheme, join it now. Or find out about pension options. Pay yourself first: automatically divert a set amount from your account into a savings or pension scheme every month. Confused by all the options? Just remember, doing nothing is the worst possible option.

6. Are you spending more than you earn?

Being financially savvy isn't about what you earn, it's about what you keep. Salary creep is when our spending rises with our salary, and even overtakes it. Aim to save 10% of your salary consistently. Be ready for those unexpected expenses (the boiler blowing up, car repair, job loss or even pregnancy) otherwise they'll plunge you into debt.

Tip: Track your spending for a month and plug the leaks. Shop around for the best deals on your mortgage, utilities, mobile phone etc. Deal with debt now. Seek help if you're in too deep (see cccs.co.uk for free counselling and assistance). Cut up your credit card until you can afford to pay it off in full every month. Have an emergency cushion equivalent to three months' expenses.

For more tips see sheconomics.com, or read Sheconomics­­ by Professor Karen J Pine and Simonne Gnessen, published by Headline, price £7.99.

Win a copy of Sheconomics - we've got 10 copies to give away! Stay tuned for our Sheconomics money webchat with Karen and Simonne later in January.

Article appeared on handbag.com 31.12.10

Sunday, 29 November 2009

OVERCOMING RELUCTANCE - SOME TIPS


The
AXA survey really highlighted how reluctant people are to go for financial advice. One in seven people said they'd rather go to the dentist than to a financial advisor. The tips we devised to make it easier for the most-reluctant are:

· Take the first step

Visualise your goal. Have a clear sense of where you want to be. Break down how you are going to get there into small steps. Then take one small step towards your goal today.

· Make it known

Own up to a fear or problem and share it with someone you trust. Enlist the help of a supportive buddy. Once you’ve put it out into the world there’s more chance of a solution.

· Get outside yourself

If you’re trapped by inertia and indecision, ask yourself ‘What would X do?’ Think of someone who you believe has it right financially - then put it into action.

· The law of opposites

You can trick your brain by behaving in the opposite way to how you feel. So acting as if you are the person you want to be will conquer some of the barriers you’ve been putting up.

· Reframe

Putting a different spin on problems can lead to a fresh approach. If the idea of a pension bores you, for example, reframing it as a gift to your future self could shift your mindset.


Almost two thirds of the people surveyed said they would seek help - if they could find someone they trusted.

Simonne has helped hundreds of people sort out their finances, so if you're one of the reluctant ones she may be able to help you -have a look at Wise Monkey Financial Coaching.

Or go to www.savvywoman.co.uk. This great site, run by top personal finance journalist Sarah Pennells, has a panel of experts on hand to answer your financial questions.

Tuesday, 24 November 2009

My Budget Day - AXA's inspired idea

I love Axa's idea of My Budget Day, this week.
If only more of us just put aside a bit of time for financial planning, we could be a load better off.
Another brilliant idea they have is to rename pensions! If the very word 'pension' strikes fear to your soul can you come up with something better?
In Sheconomics we reckon on reframing your pension as 'a gift to your future self', but renaming is also an effective way into tricking your brain into associating it more with pleasure than pain -
what would the word be though?
To enter go to Axa's site - you could win a cash prize.